If you want to specify the other parameters, it seemed to make sense to specify 'Other data source', and 'Microsoft OLE DB Provider for SQL Server':
That was easy... till I tried to query the server, which failed with a timeout. Then, when I opended the properties of the Linked Server, the Data Source information had gone:
To get round this, I had to add the linked server via the sp_addlinkedserver system stored procedure, and specify a provider of 'SQLNCLI' (the native SQL client), and not SQLOLEDB (the OleDb provider for SQL Server). The following example shows how to do it.
sp_addlinkedserver
@server = 'REMOTESQL' -- Name used in queries
, @provider = 'SQLNCLI' -- SQL Native Client
, @srvproduct = '' -- Cannot be null, and if 'SQL Server' then you cannot specify the datasrc
, @datasrc = 'SERVER=10.0.0.1' -- IP Address of the server
, @catalog = 'MYDB' -- database name on the server, if required